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What exactly is a SPEED DATING EVENT?
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Speed Dating- an easy way to meet several singles in a particular age group in one night
History: The concept of "Speed Dating" has been around for 20+ years!
Speed dating actually started in Los Angeles in 1998 when the first event was held by Rabbi Yaacov
Devo, at Pete’s Café in Beverly Hills CA
Speed Dating eventually crossed the Atlantic and is hot in the UK and many other parts of the world now!
Objective: The goal of these events is to help busy active singles, have a chance to meet with several singles
in person; face-to-face, in a pleasant non-threatening, private environment. Its very organized and great way for shy introverted singles to meet.
*7 in Heaven Speed Dating events are held in upscale restaurants which serve excellent food, not loud bar room pubs.
We have 6 separate Age Groups
for our events, starting at age 23 and up to 69+
How Speed Dating works: I like to say, it's a bit like musical chairs!
When you arrive for Speed Dating, you are greeted by the host and given your assigned table number.
Everyone meets at the bar area to mingle before our event begins.
Appetizers are also included in the price of our regular Speed-Dating Events and the first drink is on US!
We then go to a separate private area with tables.
When we begin, the host will give you a brief overview and instructions before we get started.
Women stay at the same table all evening, while the men participants progress around the room to a different table meeting a
new "date” every 7 minutes (hence the name "7 in Heaven")
At the sound of the "BELL," each date ends, and men move to the next table where the next DATE will begin
We provide everything you will need.
Pens, and papers with everyone's name you will be meeting with;
will be listed on the sheets provided
As you meet each person, you mark ... YES or NO if you would like to meet with that particular person again
At the end of the evening, everyone turns in their sheet.
the following day, emails are sent to you with a complete report on your matches.
Even those that picked you (that you did NOT pick) sometimes refered to as "one way matches" are reported to you.
(Note: we can give you a phone call if you do not have email - please inform host)
In addition to those you meet one-on-one in your rotations, you'll have the opportunity to meet and mingle with the other
participants before the event and after the event. At 7 in Heaven Speed Dating events, you do get one drink
FREE and appetizers included in the price. Additional food and drinks are available for purchase through the venue and are at the participant's
personal expense. *No additional mimimum purchases required!
*See current SPEED DATING SCHEDULE |
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What is the Age Groups for Events?
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We believe that one size does not fit all. Therefore we have a total of 6 different age groups!
If your age falls into more then one group, choose the one that fits you best
*For Speed Dating we do allow a 1 year grace on ages if you just "aged-up"
We do verify your age for speed dating (see below)
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Women 25-37 / Men 27-39 |
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Women 34-46 / Men 36-48
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Women 40-52 / Men 42-54
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Women 44-57 / Men 47-59
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Women 50-63 / Men 53-65
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Women 57-69 / Men 59-72
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ALL AGES WELCOMED Women and Men (ALL Sunday Events) |
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Do you check ID (proof) ages before entering a Speed Dating event?
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I do not "proof" your age by asking for a driver's license at the door of a Speed Dating event.
We respect your privacy, because by giving a drivers licence, not only do you give your name/birthdate/address, also collected is your height,
eye color, drivers license number and your signature.
It is my own personal belief that this practice is insensitive and embarrassing when you arrive at a social event such as Speed Dating.
Also..by waiting to "proof at the door" you create a mismatched unequal gender balance if someone gets turned away when they arrive!
We do ask everyone to complete a
Registration form
BEFORE you attend a speed dating event.
Your name, age and contact information is verified by internet research before you attend.
If you have lied about your age, you will be asked to check the Speed Dating schedule,
and and choose a different Speed Dating event in the correct age group you belong in.
*We do allow a one year grace if you have recently "aged up" by one year within the top age group number.
If you discover, someone did not represent themselves in an honest manner, you are welcome to let me know.
I will redirect or remove this person from future events if needed.
These rules apply to BOTH men and women.
Therefore, we do our best
to deliver to you, what is advertised when it comes to ages.
My events are fun, friendly and social because of these rules.
*If you plan on lying about your age, you are only cheating yourself out of meeting a wonderful person.
Lets face it... at some point while dating, you are going to have to come clean about your age.
And no one wants to start a relationship with someone that lies.
They will wonder what else are you lying about?
And then it will be too late, as you only get one chance to make a first impression.
NOTE we do not verify ages for activitiy or sport type events with mixed age groups
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Where are the single events held?
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Long Island: Nassau North Shore Nassau, South Nassau Suffolk County Western Suffolk + Mid to Eastern Suffolk
Over the years we have been privileged to hosted at some very nice upscale hotels and restaurants on Long Island
with a nice atmosphere and excellent food --- not loud bar room pubs.
Here is the short list of some of our current places we visit for Dinner parties and Speed dating
We host several times a year at
Governors Comedy Club in Levittown & McGuires Comedy Club in Bohemia
Eastern LI events have been held at several VINEYARDS in Cutchogue, Jamesport, and Wading River
*Our BBQ's are held in PARKS or BEACHES not parking lots or the back of a bar.
Our Bowling Events at Bowlero of Commack and AMF Sheridan Lanes of Mineola are upscale clean and modern
And our Pool / Billiards events held at Bay Shore Billiards and Cue Billiards of Bayside...
Both locations are fun and classy places to meet!
We are always open to trying new exciting upscale places to hold our events.
If you have a favorite place please let us know
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| Do people really connect and match up at these events? |
YES connections happen all the time!
There have been thousands of long term connections, friendships and marriages all that started by attending 7 in Heaven events over the past 14 years. Not all connections and marriages are posted, as many wish to keep their privacy. But we do have some brave souls that have given us permission to air their love stories!
No one knows exactly when and where your long term connection will happen for you,
but coming to our fun events will make it much easier and certainly increase your odds.
Check out our TESTIMONIALS page to view some of our successful happy connections
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How well can you get to know someone in 7 minutes?
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While it's obvious that 7 minutes is not sufficient time to get to know someone in any great depth, your goal should be to determine whether the person you are meeting is someone that you would like to follow up with and possibly see again. Meeting someone face-to-face has some real advantages over online dating. Sometimes sparks really do fly with instant chemistry! But at the very least, the shroud of unknown associated with the internet is a not an issue. Try concentrating on the questions you ask and the observations you make of each person you meet. This will be the most valuable way to making your assessment.
 *Before you attend one of our 7 in Heaven events, you can get some tips and suggestions to help you
prepare to attend one of our events from the Dating Tips page
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What information do you give my matches at a SPEED DATING?
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The morning following a Speed Dating Event (usually before 12pm the next day),
we email all participants of the results. Those without email can call us for their matches.
Everyone that has attended will receive an email with the results from that event, even if you received no matches.
"MATCH" happens when you BOTH check YES on each other.
Your match information will include only the first name of your match and contact information (cell numbers and email). Please note If you do not want your contact cell number or email given out, then we must know ahead of time in writing directly from you.
7 in Heaven will also let you know the singles that choose you; but you did not choose them; in your results.
Also referred to as "one way matches". We only provide the first names only + cell/ email to your matches.
We never give someone you checked NO, your contact info at all.
YES, you can let us know if you changed your mind about someone, and I will update the matches and give you their contact information too. Anyone that you picked that did not pick you will be informed of your interest in case they change their minds
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Why do you have a FRIEND MATCH as an option at a Speed Dating? Aren't we here to DATE?
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Actually females love the "friend option" let me explain...
Women in particular seem to want more time to figure out if there is a romantic interest.
But .. I find many men are perplexed by this option. They want a DATE. And feel its a waste of time to be "friends first".
The friends option is even more popular now that the pandemic has changed many peoples lives about dating multiple people at one time.
Friends match is like a decision to "get to know more" before actually stepping out on a date, start out slow, and not rush into anything.
By choosing FRIENDS the man/woman can commuincate on the phone to get more time getting to know each other,
or meet up for a coffee meet and greet or an simple activity like a walk...
and not have the pressure of a "real date".
This makes it easier to make a determination if they want to step it up a bit after meeting up a few times.
Keep in mind, some of the best relationships have started as "FRIENDS"
But of course no one wants to get stuck in the "friends zone thing" so make sure you use your street smarts and common sense. ....
if someone is stalling a lot, or not answering your calls / texts within 24 hrs or less, or several weeks has pasted
and the relationship doesn't seem to be going anywhere... cut bait / ties.. move on ....
Note, the decision to use the friends option is yours. So after a speed dating event,
if you only want to make contact with those men or women that want to be your "DATE" that is your prerogative
At my events, when a women chooses FRIEND on her sheet and the man chooses DATE ...
it becomes a "friend match". or visa versa .
FRIEND MATCHES does count as a "Match", as it still is an opportunity to make a connection.
If you don't want to contact that man or woman that chose you as a "FRIEND" that's entirely your choice.
Then contact only those that chose you as a DATE again the choice is yours.
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What happens if I don't receive any matches at a Speed Dating event?
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7 in Heaven emails everyone with or without matches, the results of the Speed Dating event you attended the next day.
Anyone lacking matches are welcome to attend another of our Speed Dating events for 1/2 price standard admission.
That means EVERY reason, regardless of whether it was because you choose no one; or no one choose you. To receive this discount you must have no matches whatsoever
*Note some restrictions do apply to "No match discount"
*FRIEND MATCHES does count as a "Match", as it still is an opportunity to make a connection.
"No match discount" applies only to Speed Dating Events - all other types of activity events does not apply
*All Coupons have an expiration date- please be aware of that date
"No match discount" is limited to 1 coupon (1 return speed dating event) for no matches
*All Coupons and discount club $10 off, cannot be applied to past purchases
*If you make reservations for an event with a coupon discount applied, and you cancel that reservation, discount cannot be reapplied
*Only one discount allowed per event.
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What happens if I cancel, don't show up, arrive late, or leave early at an event?
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Our refund / Credit policy is :
72 hr (or more) notice = Refund
1-2 day prior notice = CREDIT on file *Must email request= Credit on file
NO SHOW, CANCELLING LAST MIN; arriving very LATE, or LEAVING the event early;
NON-REFUNDABLE and No future Credit to be applied
In the event that you need to cancel and give proper prior notice before the event begins,
we will allow you a credit toward a future event.
*Last minute cancellations do not apply
Send an Email to: gail@7inheavensingles.com or Call ASAP to cancel your reservation
Credit - terms and conditions
*You must give proper notice by email before the event to receive this CREDIT.
*An email confirmation of this credit will be emailed to you once you give proper notice.
*This credit is good for 6 months towards any event.
*Credit can be used towards any event by sending an email reserve your event.
*Credit cannot be used or applied toward events tickets already purchased; only on future events
*You can carry your balance to the next event if you only use a portion of the credit on file.
*Credit can only be used once - we do not give "CREDIT on CREDIT" for missed events; meaning if you make a reservation and cancel that reservation - no future credit is applied.
Refund - terms and conditions
*If 72 hours notice is given by email, refund will be allowed *Must EMAIL to receive refund
*Also; if WE cancel an event, for weather conditions or other circumstances; full refund available
Our speed dating events rely on equal numbers of men and women to pair for each round of dates. Out of consideration for the other participants, please make every effort to attend and be on time.
LAST MINUTE cancellations, very LATE arrivals, or LEAVING in the middle of an event and
"NO SHOWS" impact others participation.
Therefore, just like any event ticket purchase, there are NO refunds or NO future credits
of any kind for a *NO SHOW or arriving very LATE, or LEAVING the event early.
Once your registration is confirmed and paid (your credit or debit card is charged or your check or money order received), your sale is final.
If you aren't able to attend a SPEED DATING EVENT at the last minute for which you have registered and paid, out of consideration for others, please exercise the courtesy of letting us know ASAP. Ideally, the best solution is for you to pass along your admission to a friend of the same sex and within the event's stated age group so as not to throw off our balance of matches. If you are unable to send a replacement, we’ll attempt to replace you from a waiting list (if there is one).
*No Show explanation If you DO NOT SHOW UP at an event, or show up very LATE after the event
has begun, and you have not called or emailed us in advance, to give notice will not be
attending, your ticket is NON-REFUNDABLE for your absent and absolutely no credit
given towards a future event. This "NO SHOW" also applies if you are rescheduling a
CREDIT from a previous cancellation - no future credit will be issued. Same rule is applied
for LEAVING AN EVENT EARLY, or showing up very LATE after the event has begun; you have agreed
to the terms Tickets are NON-REFUNDABLE and no future credit will be applied, for your ticket. |
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What are the rules for SPEED DATING and other types of events?
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In order to keep the environment fun, low-pressure, comfortable and safe, participants must observe the following:
- THIS RULE APPLIES TO ALL EVENTS -
Pre-payment reserves your seat
All our events, we require pre-payment to reserve a seat/spot.
Speed Dating requires we balance a list of men and women, prepayment assures that balance.
We accept all major credit/debit cards for payment with Paypal and we accept Checks - Check Instructions
You do NOT need a PayPal Account How pay directly w/out Paypal
There are NO CASH options available.
Read additional PAYMENT TERMS
- THIS APPLIES ONLY to SPEED DATING EVENTS - Do not ask anyone out on a date directly
Please refrain from asking anyone for contact information or
giving out contact information
(not even a business card) at Speed Dating Events.
At Speed Dating Events: those that are interested in keeping in touch with you,
will indicate that on the Speed Dating selection sheet.
Your "MATCHES", will receive your contact information the next day.
At other types of events: You may ask directly for contact information.
Please respect that many attendees, are newly single and are just warming up to their newly single status.
Some new singles are attending the event for the sole purpose of either making new friends or the activity at hand.
If you are a bit shy about asking or giving your contact information directly, you can send me (Gail) an email the next day,
with the name of the person you are interested in, and I will send your contact info to that person
If they are interested, they will contact you.
*NOTE 7 in Heaven does not give anyone contact information without your permission *SEE FAQ
*Or ask the coordinator of the event for a
MAKE A CONNECTION CARD for a subtle and less direct way of requesting contact information.
- THIS APPLIES ONLY to SPEED DATING EVENTS
ONLY at Speed Dating events, there will be an equal proportionate male to female ratio.
All other activity or sporting events, dances, dinner parties or special events- gender ratio will vary and may not be equal
- THIS APPLIES to ALL EVENTS - You must represent yourself in an honest manner
That includes not lying about your age or marital status before signing up for an event. We do ask everyone to complete this registration form prior to attending any Speed Dating event. Your age, and contact information will be verified at that time.
Fraudulent information given about your age or martial status are grounds for membership termination.
- THIS APPLIES to ALL EVENTS - Be respectful of yourself and others
You may not ask any sexually explicit questions nor say or do (including gestures) anything that may be interpreted as being threatening or sexual harassing. This also includes any other inappropriate behavior, such as intoxicated individuals, bullying behavior, using events to market yourself or your business by asking for money. Solicitation of any kind is prohibited.
For the concern and well being of everyone attending our events, we reserve the right to ask anyone with rude, disrespectful or inappropriate behavior to not return to any future events. Membership will be terminated immediately.
- THIS APPLIES to ALL EVENTS - Self responsibility for safety and covid
Understand any event you partake in, no matter how simple it may be,
could involve possible personal injury, or illness from COVID.
So consider your own safety responsibility when buying a ticket.
If you are not feeling well, please do not attend the event. We do allow a CREDIT if you contact us the day before the event and cancel your reservation.
As of Thurday 2/10/22 New York State Goverment has REMOVED the mask or vaccination proof mandate
This means you will NOT need to enter the venue with a mask on, and do NOT have to wear a mask at the event.
This applies to all our restaurant activities, and other venues for activities.
Of course, anyone can chose to wear a mask the entire event if they so wish to.
See
News
If you have additional questions about events and covid rules at our events give me a call 631 592 9804 (no texting)
You agree that by participating in any of our events you are solely responsible and attend at your own risk,
you are voluntarily participating in our activities/events, and you assuming all risk of injury to yourself, or possible illness,
and agree to release and discharge 7 in Heaven Singles Events from any responsibility, and all claims or causes of action,
known or unknown, arising out of any personal injuries, illness, or property damages/loss that could occur during any
time or place we host our events
- THIS APPLIES to ALL EVENTS - Date Wisely
Although we do ask some basic screening questions and ask for your age, we do not complete any formal type of criminal back-ground checks on anyone attending. Therefore you are completely solely responsible for your interactions with anyone you meet at an event and make any arrangements to date or any other types of meetings arranged.
- 7 in Heaven is not a *Personal Matchmaking Service
Many singles make great connections at our events, but keep in mind we are a social activity club giving you fun opportunities to meet singles.
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Single Dinner Parties, Sports and other Activity Events ...
what is a MAKE A CONNECTION CARD and how does it work?
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When it comes to making connections; our sports and social activity events, are not run the same as a Speed Dating event
However, we still give you an opportunity to make connections.
It can be awkward to approach someone and outright ask for their contact information, and if the other person isn't interested it
can be uncomfortable for them also.
So at activity social or sporting events, if you see someone you would like to meet again, simply fill out a
MAKE A CONNECTION CARD
Write your name and contact information on the front of the card. Then put the name of the person you are interested
in on the back of the card. You can then give the card directly to the other person you met at the event if you
feel comfortable doing so
OR - give the card to the host (GAIL) at the end of the event.
I will notify the person (or persons) by email, you wrote on the card and let them know you are you are an ADMIRER
and you are interested in staying in touch with them outside the events
The singles you are interested in, will receive your contact information to get in touch with you. If there is a mutual interest,
they will contact you. If you don't hear back, no worries, there is always more singles to meet next time.
Didn't get a chance to get a card or hand it in?
No problem....I also email the entire group the next day that
attended an activity event asking if anyone had any "missed connections" and that is your opportunity to reply, and give me that person's name
Hey nothing ventured, nothing gained right?
I am here to help you; and it is a pleasure to help you all make connections.
*NOTE- NO ONE receives your contact information without your permission.
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Will a single woman feel comfortable if she attends an event alone?
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Attending a 7 in Heaven SPEED DATING or Activity/Sport Event is actually a very comfortable format for single women to attend alone.
I encourage women to attend alone, as this is the best way to make new friends, both male and female. When you are busy socializing with your buddy, you don't socialize with as many singles. If you alert me when you arrive that you have come alone, I am always glad to introduce you to those that have already arrived. Once a Speed Dating event begins, you will be so busy you won't even have time to notice you are alone! The choice is yours, come alone or come with a friend but have fun either way.
Read Blog Article "Going it alone has it benefits" |
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What are the advantages of Speed Dating and Single Activity Events versus online dating or other ways to meet singles?
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Speed Dating and activity events allow you to meet face-to-face with age appropriate single men and women locally where you live and work.
Unlike online dating, you get to meet the girl or guy next door, not the online dater that lives 1,000 miles away from you. Participants live or work in your area, and are looking to find a successful relationship locally. At our events you'll find your chances for success in finding the right match for yourself, is much higher then online dating. For example...we all know how many MR. or MRS. Married-and- cheating are using the online dating sites these days as a way to meet unsuspecting singles. Here since you never know who you will be meeting, it is less likely to meet the married and cheating guy or gal. Using online dating you end up emailing and talking on the phone to get acquainted, which allows people to easily be something they are not. Many post fake or old pictures of themselves. Here at our single events you are meeting face-to-face with men and women, so what you see is what you get!
Unlike meeting at the Laundromat or grocery store or at work, everyone has the same agenda - single and looking to meet someone special!
The events make it easy to meet other singles. You don't need to worry about whether or not anyone will talk to you. At Speed Dating, there's no need to fear rejection because at the event no one is allowed to ask someone for a date.
Your whole evening isn't monopolized by someone who doesn't interest you. Unlike those blind dates your friends set you up on and you knew in the first 5 mins you want out of here! How many times have you gone out with your friends to a crowded Restaurant/ Bar/ Happy hour and not met one single person in the course of the whole evening? or maybe you did meet someone ... chatted it up for long time, bought her a drink ... only to discover she has a boyfriend.
Speed Dating and activity events are more efficient. In just one evening you'll meet between 7-10 dates of singles in your age group instead of just one - saving you time and money.
It's fun!!! Sometimes Speed Dating reminds us a little of musical chairs for grown-ups. But in our grown-up version, no one loses or gets left out.
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How much will it cost? How can I register for an event?
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MEMBERSHIP IS FREE 7 in Heaven Singles Events does not charge you any membership fee or commitment beyond the specific event you wish to attend. This affords you a "pay as you go" freedom of choice to pay, rather then pay a large amount for a membership fee which you may not use; especially if you meet someone right away! Registration for our events is simple and after completing the brief registration form, attend any event you wish in your age group. Some events are open to all ages but most events are held by age groups.
Pre-payment reserves your seat
Speed Dating and Activity events require pre-payment to reserve a seat
With reference to SPEED DATING, there we balance a list of men and women.
*It is suggested you register and reserve for a Speed Dating event at least one week in advance
**NOTE to the LADIES: Women's seats for Speed Dating do fill up quickly, try to register 6-8 weeks in advance !
CLICK HERE to complete the pre-registration form or call us at 631-592-9804 to register
The regular price for Speed Dating is $45.00 (our events include 1 Free drink + Appetizers) and because we are balancing an equal amount of men and women attending, it does require you reserve a seat and make a pre-payment.
Activity events vary in price, depending on the event, and also require pre-payment to make a reservation.
READ *PAYMENT TERMS for additional information
Once you register, you can pay with your credit card online through the secure *PAYPAL
*NOTE: you do not need a Paypal account to pay by credit card
How pay directly w/out Paypal
There are NO CASH options available.
Or we can accept credit card payment by phone 631-592-9804.
We also accepts checks
*Note if you plan on paying by check, because of limited seats per event, and popularity of certain events
you MUST call 631 592 9804 or email me gail@7inheavensingles.com FIRST to check availablity
Then, once I have confirmed availibility for the event, you can mail your check - (your spot is saved)
if I do not receive your check, I will let you know
checks must be received 3 days prior to event
Make Checks payable to:
7 in Heaven Singles Events
*Please write the event date and your phone# on your check, or enclose a separate paper with information
Mail Checks to :
7 in Heaven Singles Events
Attention Gail Adams
P.O. Box 138
Lindenhurst, NY 11757
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Do you have any discounts or promotions for repeat customers?
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7 in Heaven Singles Events wants to keep your search fun and affordable!
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BRING a FRIEND DISCOUNT - How it works...
All promotions: you must be attending the event together
LADIES (Age 50+)
Bring a MALE Friend to SPEED DATING
Bring a relative, x-boyfriend, co-worker, neighbor ...
to a *SPEED-DATING event and receive an instant 1/2 price entrance
to that speed-dating event you attend together
(*Must complete the Friend form on this page)
GENTLEMEN (age 50+)
Bring a MALE FRIEND to a SPEED DATING event and receive an instant 1/2 price entrance
into that speed-dating event ( *Must complete the Friend form on this page)
LADIES and GENTS (Ages 23-39)
Bring a FEMALE FRIEND to a SPEED DATING event and receive an instant 1/2 price entrance
into that speed-dating event (*Must complete the Friend form on this page)
Receive $5 off for YOU AND your FRIEND
You and your Friend can receive a $5 off coupon on any event you and a friend attend together.
All that is needed to receive the discount is:
1. Attending the event together
2. Fill out the form on the ( *Must complete the Refer a Friend Page)
Must completely fill out the form and be attending event together to receive the discounted price
Refer a friend to any *PARTIES or any ACTIVITY or SPORT EVENT (MALE or FEMALE) Receive a
$5.00 off Thank-U Coupon for YOU and YOUR FRIEND
Can be used at any future event ~ it is NOT an "instant rebate"
(*Must complete the Friend form on this page)
*ALL Friend Promotions - must completely fill out form on this page
And ..must be attending event together to receive the discount off
*PARTIES, or any ACTIVITY or SPORT EVENT
Does not apply to the ˝ price discount,
˝ price only applies to Speed Dating Events
*Also other discounts or coupons cannot be combined at the same time
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What if someone wants to attend but doesn't have internet access?
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Give us a call 631-592-9804 to help complete the pre-registration form by phone. Also call to make a Credit/Debit card payment for your events by phone. We will also provide your "matches" from a SPEED DATING event, by phone too if needed.
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